Journey of Becoming

What does it actually mean to live an unoffendable life? Not passive. Not a pushover. But genuinely free from the grip of bitterness, offense, and unforgiveness.In this message, we explore what happens when we take offense and leave it unaddressed. Bitterness grows quietly, convincing us that staying angry is somehow protecting us or punishing the person who hurt us. But the truth is, most of the time the person who offended you does not even know they caused pain. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer.We dig into what the Bible says about forgiveness, offense, and how to walk in emotional and spiritual freedom. Key passages include Hebrews 12:15, Colossians 3:13, Ephesians 4:29-32, Proverbs 19:11, and Matthew 18, all of which give us a clear picture of how God calls us to handle hurt.Topics covered include:The difference between living unoffendable and being passive toward sin or injusticeWhy bitterness feels like strength but is actually a survival mechanism rooted in fearThe gap between intent and impact, and why it matters in relationshipsWhy forgiveness is not a one-time decision but a daily posture of the heartPractical steps to walk through forgiveness, including prayer, releasing hurt physically, and developing an inner dialogue with GodHow sharing offenses with others before processing them with God can spread bitterness to people who were never involvedThe difference between thick skin and being secure in your identity in ChristWhether you are dealing with a fresh wound or carrying something you have held onto for years, this message offers biblical truth and practical tools to help you get free. Living unoffendable is not a destination. It is a daily choice and a practice that grows the more you lean into the grace and forgiveness God has already shown you.Keywords: how to forgive someone who hurt you, letting go of bitterness, Christian forgiveness, how to stop being offended, dealing with offense biblically, overcoming unforgiveness, healing from hurt, bitterness and the Bible, Hebrews 12:15, Colossians 3:13, Matthew 18, Christian emotional health, how to live unoffendable, forgiveness and faith, spiritual maturity, Christian relationships, church sermon on forgiveness, how to forgive and move on, identity in Christ, biblical boundaries

Can your identity remain stable while you're still growing and changing? In this episode of the Crossing Sisterhood Podcast, Pastor Tamara, Toree, and Liz dive into a powerful conversation about identity in Christ, spiritual growth, prayer, and navigating life's changing seasons. Together, they explore how our circumstances, roles, and experiences may change, but our primary identity remains secure when we are rooted in Jesus Christ. Whether you're a wife, mother, widow, student, leader, or walking through a season of transition, your identity is not defined by your circumstances. You are a daughter of the King. Liz shares her personal journey of navigating grief after the loss of her husband and the challenge of understanding her identity as a widow while remaining grounded in who God says she is. Her story offers hope and encouragement for anyone walking through loss, grief, or life-altering change. The conversation also turns to prayer, answering questions many believers ask: • How do I learn to pray as a new Christian? • What do I say when I don't know the right words? • How can I develop a deeper prayer life? • What do I do when I don't feel like praying? They also discuss how the Holy Spirit intercedes for us, the vulnerability modeled throughout the Psalms, and how prayer is ultimately less about perfect words and more about a surrendered heart. If you've ever struggled with your identity, wondered how to pray, wrestled with grief, or desired a deeper relationship with God, this conversation is for you. If you are walking through the loss of a loved one, we invite you to learn more about GriefShare, and other groups where you can find encouragement, healing, and hope: https://www.wearecrossing.com/care Topics Covered: • Identity in Christ • Spiritual Growth • Christian Living • Prayer for Beginners • The Lord's Prayer • ACTS Prayer Method • Holy Spirit and Prayer • Grief and Healing • Widowhood and Faith • Biblical Encouragement • Women's Ministry • Christian Podcast Subscribe for more faith-filled conversations, biblical encouragement, and practical tools to help you grow in your relationship with Jesus.

In this heartfelt follow-up to Becoming Conference, Pastor Tamara sits down with Pastor Jessica and Kendra for an honest, hope-filled conversation every woman needs to hear. Together, they unpack what no one tells you about sharing your testimony, how God moves us from brokenness to true belonging, and why your story matters more than you think. If you’ve ever wrestled with hurt, distance from God, or wondered if your story has purpose, this episode will meet you right where you are. Through real-life experiences, faith, healing, and encouragement, you’ll be reminded that God is still writing your story, and it’s more powerful than you realize. Here's the recap of this year's Conference: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLK0smW4htwLIOQ-asdu_M3XX84leTuTeR&si=g9xKvTyd8ChemGEx

Episode 6 of the Journey of Becoming Podcast is all about parenting — and this time, the conversation is shaped by you. In this episode, we answer questions submitted by our audience and dive into some of the real, everyday challenges parents face in every season of raising kids. We talk through a wide range of topics, from the debate many parents wrestle with — should we spank or not? — to how we can explain complex biblical truths to young children in ways they can actually understand. We also discuss the emotional and spiritual transition parents experience as children grow up and the house becomes quieter, exploring what it looks like to move into the empty-nest season with purpose and faith. Parenting isn’t a one-size-fits-all journey. It’s a process of growing, learning, adjusting, and leaning on God for wisdom along the way. Our hope is that this conversation encourages you, reminds you that you’re not alone in the questions you’re asking, and helps you think through how to raise your kids with intention and faith. Whether you’re in the early years with little ones, navigating the teenage season, or preparing for the transition to an empty nest, this episode offers thoughtful insight and honest conversation for wherever you are in the journey. Subscribe for more conversations on faith, family, and the process of becoming who God created us to be.
 

Discover the difference between cultural authenticity and biblical identity in Christ. This episode explores Christian community, the “one another” commands, corporate worship, healing, and how true transformation happens when faith is lived together—not in isolation.

You have access to God's table not because of your merit, but because you're WITH Jesus. He knows your name and isn't repulsed by your weaknesses. What if instead of asking 'What can I get from this?' you asked 'What can I give?' The difference between being hidden 'in' Christ vs 'with' Christ will transform how you see your relationship with God.

What does reading the Bible really look like in everyday life? In this episode, three women share honest stories about their journeys with God’s Word—the struggles, the victories, and everything in between. We talk about why consistent Bible reading matters, how Scripture can transform our hearts and minds, and simple, practical ways to engage with God’s Word without pressure or perfection. From different reading approaches to helpful tools and encouragement for every season, this conversation is for anyone longing to grow closer to God through the Bible.

On Episode 2 of the Journey of Becoming podcast, Pastor Tamara and her daughters, Toree and Lainey, talk about their “word of the year” for 2025. They share how God spoke to them, the circumstances that led up to those moments, and the surprising ways their experiences overlapped and encouraged one another—even as they were speaking during the recording. 
 
 Listen in to be encouraged, challenged, and invited to join the journey.